If you had a small little house and a relative decided to build a bigger house right next to yours as a gift to you …would you be thankful for that gift or would you be a bit annoyed by their assumption that you needed a bigger house in the first place ? I’d be annoyed as hell! No one knows what is best for you but YOU period !! Like don’t tell me to meditate just because you do it now all of a sudden! I will do it when and how I dam well please!! The relative who wants to build you a house and “gift” it to you wants to control you!!